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Talking Stage
Light, curious, low-stakes — figuring out if this is something.
5 questions1
What does a typical weekend look like for you?
Why this matters: Reveals how they spend freedom — their real priorities.
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How do you feel about long distance?
Why this matters: Sets expectations early without pressure.
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Vague, non-committal, or dismissive of your situation.
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What's something you want people to understand about you?
Why this matters: Invites self-awareness and vulnerability from the start.
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Do you consider yourself more introverted or extroverted?
Why this matters: Affects how you'll spend time together and recharge.
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What's a value you refuse to compromise on?
Why this matters: Early deal-or-no-deal signal.